Uncompensated Care

We were blessed this week with a confirmation that our family will be eligible for help from Seattle Children's Uncompensated Care Fund, which will help cover expenses that our insurance doesn't cover completely.  We will be eligible for this help for at least another year. We are so lucky to have an amazing children's hospital so close to our home, as much as we hate the 1-2 hour commute, we truly are so lucky that we don't have to travel to a different state for all of our appointments as so many families we run into do.  I had the opportunity to visit with a new mom of twins, who had one twin diagnosed with leukemia.  They live in Alaska and she has had to move into the Ronald McDonald House with her brand new twins while her husband is at home working. My heart goes out to these other families that live far away or have language barriers.  We have such an amazing support system here, we can't imagine having to move away, but I am confident that God would continue to provide for our needs should that time come.  Thank you to all of you who continue to pray for our family!  

Motor Testing

Max had a bunch of motor testing recently.   He did a great job imitating all the tasks that were asked of him,  lots of stairs, balance tasks, walking, running, jumping and fine motor tasks like stacking and lining up blocks, stringing beads, coloring, etc.   He did an amazing job!   When we tried to do this test 6 months ago he wasn't able to even complete it, he was so fussy, clingy and uncoordinated he wasn't able to finish even one task.  What a huge accomplishment for 6 months.  The best news of all is that he was finally testing at an age appropriate level. 

Physical Therapy Evaluation

It is amazing to think back to this fall when Max was hardly able to walk, sit up or crawl without shaking or tremors and now to see all the progress that he has made is truly a miracle.    After all of his testing we re-evaluated all of the goals that he has been working on with both physical therapists that he sees regularly both at home and at Children's Hospital.

Here are a few of the goals that we made last fall and where he is at:
1. Walk and run around home falling less than 5 times per day - goal progressing still has a ways to go.
2. Max will go up stairs with alternating feet using railing or wall for support - goal met
3. Mas will go down stairs with a step-to pattern - still working on but Max has the ability to do this if he has a verbal or tactile cue to remind him.
4. Max will demonstrate the ability to move from lying on his back to sitting without using hands or rotating his body - still working on - lots of ab and core work
5. Max will kick a ball forward 8- 10 feet - still working on - now up to 2-3 feet without falling.
6. Max will demonstrate the ability to jump up off the floor 1-2 inches independently - still working on - getting close.
7. Max will demonstrate the ability to jump forward  2-3 inches - almost there - still working on

New goals - We will continue to work on previous goals and add the following ones:

1. Max will demonstrate improved balance by standing on an unsteady surface independently while performing a fine motor task for 5 minutes
2. Max will demonstrate improved balance by walking forward 3 steps on a 4 inch line or curb
3. Max will demonstrate improved balance by stepping over 3-5 inch toys or objects on the floor independently.

According to his therapists Max continues to present with deficits in balance, strength, and coordination related to his diagnosis of OMS and his balance and stability can change from week to week depending on where he is at with his medication.

We will begin videotaping him weekly doing the same tasks to watch for changes in symptoms.  We are also supposed to start counting all the times Max falls or just tips over during the day.  This becomes difficult to watch since we usually lose count before breakfast, but we are going to start playing games with the kids to try to make it a fun thing to keep track of your falls. The other major emphasis we are going to focus on is safety.  Trying to keep him as safe as possible in his surroundings by giving him tools to use when his body is feeling out of control. One of the side effects to his medication is decreased bone strength and it can make bones very brittle.  Not a good thing for an active little boy with balance issues to have to deal with. So far God has protected all his little bones and we haven't had any major accidents. Given all the times he falls - this is a true answer to prayer.

Hormones and Growth

We had another checkback with endocrine this last week to do another growth and hormone check. All seems to be well no issue with diabetes and other hormone imbalances.

Our current goals is to try to taper Max's doses to a manageable level, however it has proven to be a much bigger deal than we originally expected.  He is currently at 8mg a day.  A manageable dose for his size would be 1mg every other day.

Over the last few months everytime we have tried to decrease the amount his OMS symptoms flare up. It is also possible that his lone adrenal gland is not waking up the way we expected and when  we are decreasing his medication his body isn't making up the difference.  When this happens older kids complain of extreme fatigue, muscle pain and weakness and an overall sense of feeling yucky.  

Growth:  Max has dropped from being in the 95th percentile to being in the 7th percentile, but he is still on the charts which is a good thing.  The doctor thinks he will have grown 2.2 cm this year, an average kid grows 10.5 cm per year.  At 27 months he is still wearing 12-18 month clothes and his twin has outgrown him by 6 pounds.

He will be eligible for receiving growth hormones within the next year, if we can get him weaned off his medication.  Until he gets taken off these drugs he won't have any more growth. The discussion that needs to occur with all of his doctors is whether or not this is a good idea.  Growth hormones are natural hormones that every one has, but when given artificially it is a nasty shot that would have to be given daily at home. It would also stimulate his whole body to grow quickly including any cancerous cells. The best thing that we can cling to right now is that he has many years ahead of him to catch up and a faithful God watching out for him.

We would love prayer so that we could get him off his medication soon so that he could start growing and reduce the long term side effects.

Speech Update

If you haven't been around Max in awhile you would be surprised to hear everything that is coming out of his mouth.  Of all the therapies he is excelling the most in speech.  We did our six month evaluation to review the goals we set out for him with both of his speech therapists, and it is such an answer to prayer to see all the goals he has met and surpassed in the last 6 months. 

Here are a summary of a few of the goals we set/met:

• Max will add 10 new words to his vocab = goal surpassed
• Max will use pictures and communication boards to communicate needs = goal met
• Max will use words, signs and pictures to request objects/actions, protest, comment, call for attention, ask and answer questions. = goal met
• Max will improve functional communication by answering yes/no to questions = goal met
• Max will imitate 10 names of family members = goal met

Since he has excelled on all these goals he has graduated from seeing the speech therapist at Children's for the summer.  We will continue to meet with our early intervention speech therapist in our home weekly. 

We have established the following goals for Max to work on the next few months:

• Max will begin asking and answering "wh" questions:  Where is... Who is... What is...
• Max will improve expressive language skills to say 30 different phrases of 3 or more words
• Max will begin adding - ing to his verbs - hiding, eating, running, etc..
• Max will improve speech skills by producing k/g phenomes in intial and final word positions:  frog, fork, go, cup
• Max will improve speech skills by producing words with 3 syllables: Elephant, Crocodile
• Max will produce 10 words off of our families functional word list and family names
• Max will indentify and label 3 different emotions: Happy, Mad, Scary

It is such a blessing to know that he has the language skills and cognitive ability to meet these goals, now we just need to get the muscles in his mouth to perform the way he needs them to. 

  Feel free to quiz him the next time you see him =)

8th Infusion - IVIG



Max getting his infusion all by himself no longer needs to sit on mom's lap

 Today after flying in late last night Max and I made it to the hospital prepared for a long day. Max is such a trooper, today he became even more independent. He got his port accessed and labs drawn all by himself without sitting on my lap or even shedding a tear. He is ready to conduct his own clinic visits, he can weigh himself, measure himself and get his blood pressure tested without even being asked. We were at a specialist appointment last week and the dr conducted the normal exam, but didn't check Max's ears, before the doctor left the room, Max walked over to him grabbed his light and put it in his ear reminding the dr that he forgot a step. Today was no exception, now that he knows what to expect he was the ideal patient.   We have had a lot of tests and appointments the last couple weeks as we are finishing up his 6 months checkups with all the different disciplines.  I have a lot to update on the blog and will try to start adding updates as I can on all the details we are finding.

5 minutes later, he curled up like a puppy and took a snooze.
 Slept right through his vital signs being taken every 10 minutes

Dad got to come for a quick visit on his lunch break and
we got to hang out with Aaron our favorite infusion nurse.

Chicago Wedding Weekend

A huge thank you to all those who helped us the past week with the kids so that Josh and I could make it to a good friend's wedding in Chicago.  We had a wonderful time! Kari loved the hot weather, Josh not so much.  It made it to almost 100 but with the humidity the heat index was a lot higher.  Josh served as the best man and entertained the audience with a memorable, humorous and touching toast.  While it was a busy weekend with wedding events, we were able to get out a little bit and sightsee and most of all take a breather from life.   Congrats Brent & Jess!

Our Favorite Family Service Representative

We have not given Children's Hospital enough credit for all the wonderful ways they are taking care of Max and our family. Somedays it can be really tough being surrounded by chronically ill children battling cancer and other life threatning diseases, but there are people like Jessica Spencer who brighten our days. Jessica takes care of our family by being responsible for scheduling all of our various appointments for all the different departments throughout the hospital.  She works so hard to get us a schedule that limits the amount of time and days we have to be at the hospital. She juggles so many doctors busy schedules and tries to make it so we can have a life too. We can't thank her enough for her patience, I will call her several times a day trying to rearrange things and making sure we have all of his labs, therapy appointments, tests, anesthesia, doctors, nurses, dieticians, and all the other appointments Max has to have and she always has a great sense of humor, attitude and is quick and professional.  Max also loves visiting Jessica, he has on several occasions seen her from a distance and will yell her name through the crowd to say Hi. She is always able to get a big smile out of him.  We found out she will be leaving us at the end of this month, and while we are excited for her new opportunities, we will miss her greatly!  Good luck Jessica!

Beads of Courage Update

 Today we filled Max's 3rd necklace full of beads of courage.  The girls have had fun helping him with all his beads.  The last two weeks have been full of appointments, its been busy but at least we keep earning all these cool beads.  For those just joining us you can catch up with our first post about the beads of courage program here.   He has earned 148 special beads in the last 7 months for all the challenging procedures, tests, and pokes, he has had to endure.



Molly showing us her favorite bead. 
It's an iron bird to symbolize all those wingmen out there supporting Max with prayer.

 Yet those who wait for the LORD
Will gain new strength;
They will mount up with wings like eagles,
They will run and not get tired,
They will walk and not become weary.
Isaiah 40:31



4th of July at the Beach

We were very blessed to share the fourth of July weekend with good friends at their beach house on Hood's Canal. The family had so much fun exploring the beach, crabbing, boating, tubing, hiking, and hanging out with friends and family.  We were spoiled with amazing seafood - 42 crab opening weekend.  The kids loved every minute of it.